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Melanin & Rubies Tour 2018

Posted by Fari X on June 3, 2018 at 6:35 PM Comments comments (0)

Melanin & Rubies Book Tour 2018!

9 Stops 8 Cities

2 Authors

Book Signings

Spoken Word

Public Speaking

Melanin Talk (community affairs, natural health, etc)

Hosted by Nikey "Fari X" Pettie and Featuring Naima Yetunde Ince

There are 3 Vendor Tables Available For The July 20th Event in Jonesboro, GA. From 5 pm to 8:30 PM $45 per table.

For more information on the specific locations and times, join my company website and check out the agenda. It's only viewable by members only! 


Let Go Of Irrational Expectations

Posted by Fari X on June 3, 2018 at 5:55 PM Comments comments (0)

Does your partner and/or other people tend to get surprised that you are so easily bothered over something they said to you?

If you answered yes to that question, you should step back and perform some deep introspection on yourself to figure out if there are any unresolved issues that you have yet to overcome. Carrying unresolved issues into new relationships of any kind is detrimental.

You probably have high expectations that things will always go how you want them to and when they don't go your way you get upset. You possibly adopted an attitude that others are not supposed to frustrate you and life should be free of frustration. That's not possible.

You must retrain yourself and understand that you cannot control how others act and you cannot control what others say but you can control how you react to others actions.

Your attitude can possibly flow from how you grew up; possibly from your parents attitudes and expectations. Recognize and understand that you must let go of irrational expectations and once you do that, you will minimize your anger issues.

Once you change your perception and accept that in life you will run into hurdles, you will be more prepared for them and less probable to overreact.

Bottom line, if you want your relationships to work and if you desire peace in your life, you must work on YOU first.

- Fari X

Blind Love

Posted by Fari X on June 3, 2018 at 4:45 PM Comments comments (0)

Most relationships begin to change after about 6 months to a year.

The cuddling, kissing, and looking extra fly begins to fade away and you might even meet a different side of your lover too. Your partner was once perfect in your eyes and maybe they still are but can you recognize and handle the imperfections that you've finally met or are you ignoring the signs just to possibly suffer later?

Blind love will have you doing the strangest things and conscious love will save you both from heartache and will give your lives true peace and happiness.

Be conscious of what you consume mentally, physically, and spiritually.

- Fari X (Scars: The Storm & After)

Fari X Essential Healing needs your support!

Posted by Fari X on February 28, 2018 at 2:25 PM Comments comments (0)

As many of you know, I have been creating healing oils for quite some time; approximately four years and counting. In the last couple of years my products and services have been on a higher demand and that is the whole purpose of this message. Your help opening Fari X Essential Healing Center is needed and would be greatly appreciated. The center will provide all of my products and services, feature a meditation room, a sitting area to read, and I will also sell other authors/talents self-help books, music, and products. Please donate towards the opening of my center, order products, and/or inquire within if you're interested in becoming an investor. Check out the testimonials on my website and reviews on Facebook http://www.Facebook.com/IAmFariX and I hope to receive your support soon!

Your Sacred Soulmate

Posted by Fari X on February 20, 2018 at 9:45 PM Comments comments (0)

If your heart doesn't palpitate when they touch you, then, they ain't THE ONE. (Non-sexual experience before your first sexual encounter.)

If you don't feel drawn to them like a magnet even when you are at odds, then, they ain't THE ONE.

If you don't feel a fiery/burning/hot sensation between your bodies when you are close, then, they ain't THE ONE. (Non-sexual experience before your first sexual encounter.)

If they are not every bit of you on the flip side (your reflection/your mirror image) then, they ain't THE ONE!

Your Sacred Soulmate is everything listed above and then some. Don't settle for nothing less. My next book release is coming soon!

- MC/HHP/CA, Fari X

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Natural vs Synthetic

Posted by Fari X on November 24, 2017 at 4:25 PM Comments comments (0)

Alot of you might see "nappy" and ugly but I see natural and beautiful. This is open for discussion on what "Natural" means to you! Tweet me @NikeyPasco and hash-tag #NaturalvsSynthetic #FariMilitia

You are now looking at hair that defies gravity. I am the Original Woman...

The Sequel!!!

Posted by Fari X on November 5, 2017 at 12:25 AM Comments comments (0)

Without further ado, I present to you Part 2 to my Best Seller "Scars: Steps to Queenism" this trilogy is a must read!


Just when you think things are great...the storm hits. The question is: Can you stand strong through the storm or will you allow the storm to destroy you? This journey was embarked without a manual and the only guide one has is light. We can perambulate this voyage together or undertake it alone; just know that it's not an unchallenging expedition. This is the authors transition to Fari X...



Self-Hate...The Disease

Posted by Fari X on October 2, 2017 at 2:00 PM Comments comments (0)

Worldwide, Self-Hate is something that many people in the melanite communties suffer from. Is it the pressure of today's society that is causing our people to hate their natural selves or is it much deeper? What do you think the root issue is and do you think it can be cured? Because, yes, this is a disease. Lets discuss this by tweeting me at @NikeyPasco and hash-tag #CureSelfHate

Nicki Minaj appears as if she wants to be anything other than the Original Woman that she is.

Sammy Sosa not only changed his skin complexion but also the color of his eyes. 

Fari X Entertainment

Posted by Fari X on September 25, 2017 at 3:10 PM Comments comments (0)

I am so excited about 2018! Get used to seeing this logo and name because it's here to stay!

Book Tour Success

Posted by Fari X on September 20, 2017 at 3:00 PM Comments comments (0)

This year was an amazing year for Nikey Nation/Fari Militia! I can't thank you all enough for the love and support that you have shown me during the tour. Next year will be even greater!!

- Fari X